Wedding Planning

In my absence from the blog, many things have happened. Some have been a real challenge in a trying way, and others in a very joyous way.  The difficult road since March has been in the wake of the loss of my mother to cancer.  As her primary caregiver, she and I...

Embalming Green

The old adage “opinions are like a-holes, everyone has them and they all stink” is seldom appropriate but certainly applicable when it comes to embalming. What is to follow is my own stinky opinion on where embalming fits into our movement.  If you just want the...

The Corporate Gig

There have been a few of you out there that have come to me asking about positions in corporate firms; should you take them, should you apply for them, would it be good for your career, will they steal my soul?   Since we’re on the “path of truth” about the funeral...

Green Burial – defining terms

I’m getting questions about what makes green burial different than a traditional one. I long for a day where there will be a simple answer, but I fear that that day will unlikely arrive.  I think that those of us that are helping to facilitate the movement are...

Becoming a funeral professional

I’ve found over the years that a career as a funeral director is usually nothing like the image the uninitiated has.  I’m not saying that it’s bad; it’s just different than the portrayals that the industry and popular culture puts forth.  It’s a fantastic career...